Manifesting Our Dream Home: Moving Through Fear and Into Expansion

In today’s episode, I share the wild and emotional ride of manifesting our new dream home — and all the fears, doubts, and synchronicities that came with it.

I talk about:

• What the terror barrier really is (and how it shows up when you're about to uplevel)
• How fear, doubt, and indecision creep in just before your next chapter
• The exact signs from the universe that gave me the courage to say yes
• How I’m taking small aligned actions to anchor into this new vibration
• Why feeling uncomfortable is actually a powerful sign you're growing

Plus, if you’re calling in big dreams right now — whether it’s a new home, new love, or a new business chapter — this episode will remind you that you’re not crazy… you’re expanding.

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Listen now and remember: if you’re feeling scared, it probably means you’re closer than you think.

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Transcript

Seeking a New Home By The Beach

Speaker 1 0:00

Welcome to today's episode . So I recorded a Instagram story on the weekend just kind of laughing at the craziness of what's going on at the moment , and quite a few people messaged me and said they needed to hear that message . So I thought I'd record a podcast and tell you the whole story . We have been looking for a new home to rent a bit closer to the beach , closer to my daughter's friends , in a place called Lenox Head . So we've been living in Byron Hinterland , which has been beautiful , for the last three years , in a beautiful tree house with a wraparound balcony and views of green rolling hills . But it rains a lot in the hills , something I didn't kind of think of when I moved here , so it's always damp and you always think it's a horrible day , and then you drive down to the beach and it's perfectly sunny and stunning . So I'm ready to be in that sunny weather and swimming in the ocean more so . Anyway , last week we were going to look at some houses , and one of the houses was one that came up in December and I knew it didn't feel right , but I went into my daughter's room it was school holidays and I said look , let's go look at this house . She goes mom , have a look at my Pinterest board . Like , this is the house that we're manifesting . And we have these photos also on the vision board on the fruit and my personal vision board and I was like , oh , you know what A house exactly like that has just come available for rent . But it's way over our budget . But let's go and have a look at it anyway . But let's go and have a look at it anyway . So we went and had a look and the timing was perfect . It was like 15 minutes after us looking at another house and it was available the exact time that our lease was up in our hinterland home . So we went and looked and we walked in and my daughter's like , mum , if we lived in this abundant , amazing space , you would be receiving more anyway and we would just feel so good and that would just mean everything . And I was like you know what ? You are right . So we put in an application . I did ask for a little bit less on the rent because I do think it was quite overpriced A lot of that's happening around this area and they met us halfway and they accepted our application . How amazing , what a dream come true .

Speaker 1 2:39

But then the terror barrier happened , and this has happened to me multiple

Dream House Manifestation

Speaker 1 2:45

times . It happened to me when I was going to Antarctica . You know , I wanted to go for three months and then two weeks before they invited me to come at a very nice price , but it was two weeks before Christmas and literally the night before I was going . Who am I to do this ? I shouldn't be going . This is , so you know , irresponsible . Anyway , I went and it was all good , but every time I manifest something massive . This happens and it reminds me of Bob Proctor's work where he talks about the terror barrier .

Speaker 1 3:25

So so we are in a , we live in a certain vibration or frequency and everything meets us at the frequency or vibration that we are at . It's also important to be in a really good vibration and frequency when you are meeting someone that you might want to have a relationship with , but I will save that to another podcast episode because I've got a really good example of this , anyway . So then we have a vision or a manifestation or something that we want to create in our life , and then it comes . You know you can attract anything you want if you are ready and open to receiving it . So it comes and that is in a new vibration and frequency and what it does is it takes you time to shift , but in between where you're at now and this new vibration and frequency is kind

The Terror Barrier Explained

Speaker 1 4:25

of like the messy middle . It feels really uncomfortable because you're growing and your ego and your mind gets in the way and tries to sabotage it .

Speaker 1 4:38

So how this can show up is you start to question .

Speaker 1 4:43

So for me I was like can I really afford this ?

Speaker 1 4:48

Is it good enough ? Should we get something smaller that's in our budget ? Maybe I can get that other house that has a extra studio on it that we can rent out . So all these indecisions and questioning comes up . That's my focus keeper timer . And then we start to doubt ourselves . So doubt starts to creep in . And what happens when indecision and doubt come together ? They create fear , and then that can just really overtake us and disable us , which is what happened to me over the weekend as well , where I just freak out so much that I actually can't even do anything , even making myself a piece of toast or something . So because I get so caught up in my head and forget to actually trust that we are being supported by the universe like we asked for it , and we just need to find ourselves to be safe to step in and to receive it . So the terror barrier came up big time for me .

Speaker 1 6:03

Another thing that happened this month my camera broke on a photo shoot in Melbourne and luckily I had my backup camera which I always do because you just never know when these things are going to go wrong but I sent it away and they said , look , you actually just need to get a new camera . So that was , yeah , a big , a big thing that happened . And then also , when they said that we got the house , they needed two weeks rent plus four weeks for bond , so that's nearly ten thousand dollars plus another ten thousand dollars for a new camera and new lenses and that kind of thing . So there was a lot happening . I called my psychic mentor to get a little bit of advice and she said

Three Signs From The Universe

Speaker 1 6:50

ask for three signs from the universe . When you get off this phone , say out loud , give me three signs .

Speaker 1 6:58

So the funny thing is we were looking after some of my friend's little kids and my daughter and her friend took the kids down for a bike ride and they went to the op shop and my daughter calls me and she goes mom , you need to come down . One of the kids has bought something at the op shop but we can't carry it back . And I was like , okay , what have you bought ? It's a Barbie dream house . And I was like you have to be kidding me , don't you Like ? If you could ask for a sign , like what a sign a dream house . That had been received . So anyway , that was the first sign I got . And then I checked my emails and saw that an email came in at 3 33 as a reminder to accept the offer for this house . When I looked up at 3 33 , the spiritual meaning of that is you're being supported , trusting yourself . And then the third sign was the next day I was dropping my daughter at a friend's house and as I left , a black cat ran across the front of the car out of nowhere , like you cannot make this stuff up . I checked in what that means again because I always thought it was bad luck . But apparently if it runs from right to left , good luck is coming and if it runs left to right , bad luck . So I am taking these as a sign .

Speaker 1 8:31

Then , when I was actually working on the budgeting with my partner on my laptop or looking , I used Notion to keep on my finances and my budgeting and everything , and it all looked fine . I went away , then came back and I was going to start recording more content for the GoTo Academy and my computer didn't open or turn on and I was like like what the hell ? So it was kind of a laughing moment , but also a little bit freaking out . Going right , so my camera , I need a new camera . We're moving into a new home and my laptop just stopped . So I took it to the Apple store . They said sorry , it's gone , it's over , so you will need to get a new laptop .

Speaker 1 9:20

By this time all I could do was laugh , thinking okay , so I don't have a camera , I don't have a computer to work , and we're moving into this new home , which feels really

Complete Life Overhaul

Speaker 1 9:30

big and scary . And I just sat in it for a moment and was thinking this is just an overhaul , massive energetic upgrade . And the universe asking are you ready to actually step into this and own this ? Because you're not going to carry all your old stuff into this next chapter in your life . So I'm kind of visualizing it as being pressured like a piece of coal to turn into a diamond . So , instead of focusing on all the heavy stuff .

Speaker 1 10:05

I've been focusing on waking up in this new beautiful home what that's going to feel like because it's so open and just has such an energetic high vibration as well . Doing shoots with my new camera , because my old camera is quite old actually and having a beautiful new laptop . My laptop was getting quite heavy and so not that it put on weight or anything , but carrying a 16 inch MacBook Pro was quite heavy , so I'm going for a smaller but more powerful computer and how having all these really high quality , high tech tools , high vibrational environment will make me feel and so bringing that into my physical being and starting to feel my energy shift and focusing on the great things I can create from that space to really own it and sit in it . The steps I've been taking to really go okay , I've got this , I'm open and ready to receive is to actually start taking action . So then yesterday I started putting all the things that are no longer aligned with this new house and the vision and the style of it on Facebook marketplace , so literally selling most of our furniture so we can upgrade and get some beautiful new things . It's quite a minimalist space , so we actually won't need much , and beautiful big walk-in wardrobe with drawers and everything , so there's a lot I can sell there . It's been really nice just seeing that money rolling in , releasing all those old things and opening myself up to this next chapter .

Speaker 1 11:53

So I'm going to leave it here with you and maybe question where are you being invited to really step up , lean in , take that leap that you've been wanting to do and open yourself up to receiving it ?

Taking Action and Final Thoughts

Speaker 1 12:19

Invitations are on your vision board that are coming into your fruition . That might be scaring you a little bit , because if you don't do it now , when are you going to do it ? And if they do come up and this is something I've been reminding myself if I said no , I would be telling the universe that I'm not ready to do this . And you know when are you ever ready ? How do you know ? Anyway , I do run a vision board workshop once or twice a year , so if you are interested in coming and learning the techniques that I do do to manifest these big things in life , sign up to my newsletter or come and send me a dm on instagram or tell me if you've been through something like this as well . I would love to hear .